Everything in its time... I guess,

I don't like to question God, because I know that all things will be used to proclaim His glory no matter what that situation looks like. But, within the last three months at least three of my close friends have had very complicated pregnancies two of which have resulted in the baby dying and the last one (quite literally as I'm typing) is being delivered two months premature.
My heart breaks for these ladies and the families that are going through such a painful time. I just wonder why God would choose to use THIS way to get their attention. But like I said I know it's all for the glory of God and He can use this time to draw them into a closer relationship with Him. It's just hard for me to swallow sometimes, but who am I to pick and choose what I like about the character of God and what I want to ignore.
I hate sin and I cannot wait for Christ's return so that no mother has to feel this pain ever again.